{"id":2791,"date":"2013-10-07T06:43:17","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T13:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.eaf.net\/mvp\/?p=2791"},"modified":"2013-10-13T20:39:14","modified_gmt":"2013-10-14T03:39:14","slug":"why-mock-goody-two-shoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/mvp\/2013\/why-mock-goody-two-shoes\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Mock Goody Two-Shoes?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Goody two-shoes? What does that mean?!<\/p>\n<p>It must be something bad. Really, terribly bad. I&#8217;ve never heard anything positive about a goody two-shoes. I&#8217;ve never heard anyone aspire to being one. <strong>Obviously there&#8217;s no good in that kind of <em>goody<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Goody two-shoes are mocked, derided, and scorned. They are held in contempt and as a standard of what not to be.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>OK, after writing all that, I looked up the term and found these two helpful entries:<\/p>\n<div class=\"facebook\">Someone who tries to behave better than anyone else<\/p>\n<p>A prudish, self-righteous individual, a goody-goody. For example, Phyllis was a real goody two-shoes, tattling on her friends to the teacher. This expression alludes to the main character of a nursery tale, The History of Goody Two-Shoes (1765), who was so pleased when receiving a second shoe that she kept saying &#8220;Two shoes.&#8221; The goody  in the story is short for goodwife but means &#8220;goody-goody&#8221; in the idiom.<\/p>\n<p class=\"alignrightsmall\" style=\"margin-bottom:0; padding-bottom:0\">Source: <a href=\"http:\/\/dictionary.reference.com\/browse\/goody%20two-shoes\" title=\"Definition of 'goody two-shoes'\">dictionary.com<\/a><\/div>\n<p>That helps. I&#8217;ve even met people like that. And people I thought were like that, but I discovered later my own weakness propelled me to <strong>a huge leap onto a wrong, unjust conclusion<\/strong>. Andr\u00e9e over at <i>World<\/i> magazine experienced something similar: <!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Mary Jo was practically perfect. Of all the coeds she was by far the most wholesome, like the song out of West Side Story: &#8220;modest and pure, polite and refined, well-bred and mature.&#8221; Never an untoward word, never a scandalizing outfit, never a hint of gossip, jealousy, or hippie free love, nothing but kind, cheerful, and honoring of her parents. And one day I was fed up with it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So she unloaded on Mary Jo.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some other things I noted in the article:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Resolved conflict, even decades later, makes the end of a thing better than its beginning.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Mary Jo didn&#8217;t flee the scene and didn&#8217;t breathe a word in her defense: She stood like a sheep led to slaughter.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>When we wrong someone, it&#8217;s easy to later get into &#8220;the submissive dog posture.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Mary Jo&#8217;s response decades later: &#8220;I just want you to know that it&#8217;s OK. Nothing has changed my love for you.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>After receiving Andr\u00e9e&#8217;s written apology, Mary Jo hadn&#8217;t responded right away, preferring &#8220;to pray about it and wait for just the right words.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Perhaps we react to goody two-shoes (real as well as mischaracterized) for the same reason Cain reacted to Abel: <span class=\"verse\">&#8220;because his own deeds were evil and his brother&#8217;s righteous&#8221;<\/span> (1 John 3:12).<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;You can&#8217;t make it right. You can&#8217;t make a past misdeed better. But you can make yourself better.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I&#8217;m guessing it would do you good to read the whole piece: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.worldmag.com\/2013\/10\/a_letter_to_mary_jo\" title=\"A Letter to Mary Jo | Andr\u00e9e Seu Peterson | World magazine\">A letter to Mary Jo<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And the next time you take to Twitter, Facebook, Google+, or your blog to lather some snark on a toasted goody two-shoes, <strong>restrain yourself and search your own heart instead<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You might learn something. 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