{"id":2105,"date":"2016-02-21T07:45:56","date_gmt":"2016-02-21T15:45:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/?p=2105"},"modified":"2021-02-21T05:45:26","modified_gmt":"2021-02-21T13:45:26","slug":"how-to-cause-contention","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/2016\/how-to-cause-contention\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Cause Contention"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-size:110%; font-family:verdana,arial,'sans-serif'\">I need to put pressure on someone who is already angry and bitter.<\/p>\n<p>How can I do it without stirring up a fresh dose of those? What must I do to exert this pressure in a way that doesn&#8217;t bring on a heavier cascade of contention?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it isn&#8217;t possible.<\/p>\n<p>These thoughts come as a consequence of my Bible reading this morning. I &#8220;learned&#8221; a new word: <em>miyts<\/em> (pronounced <em>meets<\/em>). This noun means &#8220;pressure&#8221; and appears only three times in the Old Testament, all of them in Proverbs 30:33.<\/p>\n<p>Here is the verse in three versions:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Surely he who stirs milk will get out butter, and he who blows his nose hard will get out blood; and he who provokes wrath will cause contention.<\/p>\n<p>Surely the churning of milk bringeth forth butter, and the wringing of the nose bringeth forth blood: so the forcing of wrath bringeth forth strife.<\/p>\n<p>Ciertamente el que bate la leche sacar\u00e1 mantequilla, Y el que recio se suena las narices sacar\u00e1 sangre; Y el que provoca la ira causar\u00e1 contienda.<\/p>\n<p class=\"alignrightsmall\">The first version is my translation of the third (which is Reina-Valera 1960).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Put pressure on someone who is already angry and you&#8217;ll surely get contention and strife.<\/strong> <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Please note that verse does not say to not do such a thing. It is letting me know in advance about a certain cause-and-effect sequence.<\/p>\n<p>It is good to be forewarned.<\/p>\n<p>Like I said at the beginning, I need to put pressure on someone who is already angry and bitter. Oh boy. \ud83d\ude33<\/p>\n<p>(Did I say <em>need<\/em>? Hmmm&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>This verse also forewarns me about my responses to someone&#8217;s pressure on me when I&#8217;m upset or angry. And that reminds me of this: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.anabaptists.org\/clp\/youth\/9-409.html\">The Power of the Tongue<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center; color:maroon; margin-top:-1em; margin-bottom:2em\">When I feel anger rising in me,<br \/>\nI can turn it away<br \/>\nby choosing a soft answer instead of grievous words.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/2005\/soft-answers\/\" style=\"font-size:80%\">Soft Answers<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wallpaper\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/2009\/the-power-of-the-tongue\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/pantinghart\/wp-content\/a-wholesome-tongue.jpg\" alt=\"a photo with this superimposed: A wholesome tongue is a tree of life\" title=\"God's Word says: A wholesome tongue is a tree of life (Proverbs 15:4)\"\/><\/a><br \/>\n<em>&#8220;A wholesome tongue is a tree of life.&#8221;<\/em><\/div>\n<div class=\"wallpaper\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/2014\/pass-over-that-transgression\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/pantinghart\/wp-content\/glorytopassover-b.jpg\" alt=\"photo with this superimposed: Glory in passing over an offense\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em>Pass Over That Transgression!<\/em><\/div>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s as simple as blowing your nose hard is!<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2],"tags":[44,64,99,52],"class_list":{"0":"post-2105","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-proverbs","7":"tag-live-right","8":"tag-peace","9":"tag-relationships","10":"tag-speech","11":"h-entry","12":"hentry","13":"h-as-article"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/prJBV-xX","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2105\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eaf.net\/pantinghart\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}