We Spoil Them Instead

“You don’t spank children today.”
Judge Jose Longoria

Longer ago, someone much wiser than Judge Longoria wrote:

“Whoever spares the rod hates his son,
but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.”
–Proverbs 13:24

Mr. Longoria, today we need to return to that wisdom from long ago, that wisdom from above.

I recommend for your online reading: Five Pointers for Disciplining Children

And here are some books for your consideration:

Woe to the parent who abuses a child under the guise of discipline!

Too Narrow to Hide

Can I hide my sin behind a hypocrite?

behind fence postWe humans have a disposition to hide behind the failings and shortcomings of another.

That is, we try to.

It really is a dumb effort.

But we’re still prone to try it.

Somehow, we seem to think another’s flaw provides us with the flawless excuse.

Another’s gossip and evil surmisings are too narrow to hide my vengeful thoughts or fight-fire-with-fire speech.

Someone’s hypocrisy is too narrow to hide my apostasy.

Another’s wrong is too narrow to hide my unforgiveness. In fact, my own hurt at another’s misdeed is too narrow to hide my unforgiving spirit. Read it all

Know Who You’re Talking To?

How frequently I forget The Jesus Option in my long-running woes and spur-of-the-moment desperations!

How easily I pray a bit and quit!

How often I petition God earnestly…while suspecting He doesn’t have in mind to satisfy my need!

Now, reading this a few minutes ago, I don’t know what to make of it:

If you and I knew who Jesus was—really, really knew—would we pray differently? […]

He commended people who gave Him no rest in these concerns.

Two blind men gave Him no rest. They cried out to Jesus, and not only did He ignore them, He walked into someone’s house. They had to barge in after Him before they got satisfaction Matthew 9:27-31.

The Syrophoenician woman gave Him no rest. She begged to the point of harassment, and Jesus gave her no encouragement. But she would not be put off until she got satisfaction Mark 7:24-30.

Maybe Jesus was waiting to see how badly they wanted what they wanted, and how strongly they believed He was both merciful and able.

What is it that you wished for today that you kept to yourself and didn’t even think to pray for because you didn’t believe God would be willing to grant it?

Once again, many thanks, Andreé Seu (‘If you knew’).

My Self-Professing Is Better Than Yours?!

In my circles, branding someone a “self-professing” anything generally doesn’t rise to the level of a compliment.

I find that odd.

I profess to be a Christian.

Does that make me a self-professing Christian?

I believe so.

You got a problem with that?

Maybe you think I’m suspect as a Christian because I profess to be one?

Really, though, it’s weird to read or hear one self-professing Christian use self-professing to speak of another self-professing Christian.

I just read another instance of that in Issue 100 of the newsletter from Faith builders. In an otherwise excellent article (The Anabaptist Advantage Among Muslims) by self-professing Christian TDW, this:

Then in 2001 the self-professing “born-again” President George Bush called for another round of violence against the Muslims when he said…

OK.

Like I said, TDW’s article is excellent. I hope to secure permission to republish it on one or more of my sites. I truly do expect them to grant me permission, even though I plan to chide them for the above reference to the President.

After all, how can I possibly believe that my self-profession is more accurate than anyone else’s?

And, still, I use self-professing on others, though less and less intentionally so.

And when I do, it’s less easy to overlook the importance — the urgent necessity — of making sure that my own self-profession is under-girded and made believable by the evidence blooming fragrantly from my own life.

PS: I understand that we adjective-ize someone with self-professing when we have reason to question the sincerity and depth of his commitment to Christ. But still…

Quiet, Silent Drowning

Yesterday I posted an urgent-must-read piece about drowning in water.

The take-away lesson: Not all people who are drowning look like they are drowning.

The same applies to other kinds of drowning.

  • Drowning in debt
  • Drowning in despair
  • Drowning in doubt
  • Drowning in delinquency
  • Drowning in …

They can no longer help themselves.

Nor can they reach out for someone else’s help.

And they even seem incapable of crying out.

Might someone near you be drowning … and you don’t realize their mortal danger?

When you do realize they’re drowning, will you rescue them?

May God sharpen my vision, increase my awareness, and deepen my compassion.

Above all, love God!
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